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海外在住の日本人男性の皆様へ
忙しいあなたに代わり、glowがパートナー探しのお手伝いをします。
弊社の女性会員様はアメリカ在住の方を始め、日本在住の女性会員様は、国際的なバックグランドをお持ちでいらっしゃり、
海外で生活されたご経験があり、英語もお話しされ、海外で生活される事を望んでいらっしゃる方のご登録が多い点が、他社とは大きく異なる面だと思います。
日本へのご出張や、里帰りの際には日本でミーティングをアレンジさせて頂く事が可能です。

私たちは日本人男性から 「アメリカに居る日本人女性は、皆アメリカ人男性を希望している人が多いのでは?」 と聞かれることが多々あります。
そんなとき、私たちはいつも自信を持ってこう答えています。 「いえいえ! 日本人男性のほうが、引っ張りだこですよ!」
本当なの? と、皆様よく疑いの目でおっしゃいますので、なぜ人気なのかお話しさせてくださいね。
Japanese men are popular because ?

1. they have the same cultural and linguistic background
living outside Japan For Japanese women, it is still the Japanese who speak the same language and eat the same rice that really make them feel at home. There are many women who say that.
Even if we have a fight, if the language of the fight is Japanese, it is certainly less stressful for us, who are native Japanese speakers, than if we have a fight in English.

2. Japanese men living in the U.S. are more likely to have a global perspective than Japanese men living in Japan and get along
This seems to be another reason for their popularity. Many women think that Japanese men, who are not from a domestic-only culture and have had difficulties overseas, can understand each other ?
as well as Japanese women who have had a lot of experience overseas.

3. I feel that men are raised to be this way and mentally strong
For example, in America, men and women have equal rights and are not separated because they are men or women ( ideally ) they are brought up.
Except for those who were raised in a very male-dominated home, boys are not raised to cry, girls to be charming, etc., so some female children have a very strong spirit, and
many male children are raised with a feminine side. Therefore, for those of us Japanese women who were raised in Japan to believe that men should be this way and women should be that way,
the feminine side of American men may come as a surprise, and some women may even feel that they are unreliable at times. Japanese men, on the other hand, have the heart and attitude to be patient even if it is hard for them.
This is what many women consider to be masculine, dependable, and wonderful.

4. Japanese men only date one person at a time until it breaks up
Of course there are exceptions, but basically, we Japanese do not date many people at the same time.
However, Americans may date several people at the same time until they become boyfriends ・ or girlfriends ( and then narrow down the list to those whom they think ! are the right person to date ) and then they start to date exclusively. ( Exclusive ) In other words, the status of "boyfriend and girlfriend" in Japan is brought to the status of "steady".
This dating is the part that we Japanese who grew up in Japan don't quite understand. It is good if you agree with it, but it is also true that there are many women who think "I just can't stand it".
On the other hand, I don't think Japanese men, unless they are playboys, would date more than one woman at a time. Therefore, they have the same senses and are comfortable in a relationship.
Therefore, women who want to date Japanese men often say, "I feel comfortable with Japanese men because we have the same senses.

5. your parents or your siblings or relatives wish to have a Japanese man
even in the 21st century... You may think that your family is important, but it is still important. Many people would rather get married with blessings than with opposition from everyone around them.
Of course, there are cases where the person you love is not Japanese by chance, and it is not always a case of one being better or worse than the other.
Basically, parents and relatives would like their lovely daughter to marry a Japanese person who grew up with the same language and culture.
If possible, they would like their lovely daughter to marry a Japanese person who has been raised in the same language and culture. And many of them would also like to meet their parents' wishes if possible.

6. Even though they live in the U.S. now, maybe one day in the future they will return to Japan.
I am not even sure if I will live here permanently, so I would like to be matched with a Japanese man who is in the same situation, who lives in the U.S. now and may return to Japan in the future."
Many people may be thinking.

私が以前マッチをさせていただいた方のケースをご紹介しましょう。


K様 (日本人男性、39歳)

・ 離婚経験あり、子どもなし
・ 駐在員としてサンフランシスコにて勤務

この方は、これからの残りの人生を一緒に歩んで行ける女性を探したいとオフィスに訪れました。 離婚経験もあったため、再婚についてはゆっくりと相手を見るための時間が欲しいとのお話でした。 そこで、日本人男性を希望されていた日本在住のM様という女性をご紹介しました。 K様がなかなかお仕事で日本に帰国するお時間が取れないということもあり、M様がサンフランシスコに観光がてら遊びにいらっしゃった際に、K様とのデートを私共でセットアップさせていただきました。

次の日、フィードバックを伺おうと思い連絡をした所、お二人とも歯切れが悪く・・・。 私はてっきり、お二人とも迷っていらっしゃるのかな?と思っていたのですが、二日後にK様から 「実は、よーく二人で話し合いましたが、結婚に向かって進んでいきたいと思います」 と、いきなりの爆弾発言!! その後、双方のご両親とご対面になり、トントン拍子に話が進み、半年後には結婚となりました。 「ゆっくり時間をかけて」 とおっしゃっていましたが、二人はもう会った瞬間から 「ああ、この人かな」 とお互いにケミストリーを感じたそうです。 M様は、K様の 「スムーズではないけれど男らしい心遣いに惹かれた」 とおっしゃっていました。


10代・20代はじめの頃は、憧れやレディファースト、家事も手伝ってくれそう、という曖昧な理由だけで外国人と結婚したいと思っていた女性も、学校を終え、仕事を真剣にこなし、海外経験を積むうちに、やはり日本人男性がいいと思う人が増える傾向にあるようです。

ですので、私共では、日本人男性の方から 「glowさんに来るような女性は、アメリカ人男性がいいと思っているのでは?」 と聞かれた場合、自信を持って 「いいえ、そんなことはないですよ!」 とお答えすることができるのです。

アメリカに住んでいる日本人男性の皆様は、どんどん日本人女性と出会ってほしいなと思っています。
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